Don’t let others use your goodwill

Question to Naran

I am managing my family of four, including my wife and widowed father. Due to my economic constraint, I had taken some loans. Both my wife and my father knew my financial situation very well.

Meanwhile, last week, my father sold some ancestral property that belongs to my grand-parents. Even though as per law, I had to get that share, my father wanted to keep the money for himself, without having any regards for my financial situation – which includes taking care of him. I don’t know how to explain to him.

Ashok

Answer by Naran

I think your father is misusing your goodwill. As a (Bach Flower) Centaury person, you don’t know how to handle this situation. Do the following technique, which is part of the Chakra Balancing exercise followed by Reiki practitioners:

1. Keep your left hand on your Solar Plexus chakra and right hand on the Heart Chakra

2. Chant the mantra, “Rum Yum”

Next day Ashok called Naran and said, “My father approached me and told me that he would like give me enough money to pay back all my loans. If I say I am flabbergasted, it would be an understatement”.

Explanation

A Centaury person is a weak-willed person. He will be used by others and treated like a door-mat, others having no concern for him. The Solar Plexus would be weak for a weak-willed person.

The right hand is the giving hand, while the left hand is the receiving hand.  Thus, energy from the heart fills up the solar plexus.

When there is a person ready for manipulation, then there will be a person to manipulate. As the Solar Plexus is strengthened, automatically the opposite person can’t manipulate.

To know how to do Chakra Balancing then please check out this blog:  https://healbyreiki.wordpress.com/2009/05/15/chakra-balancing-%e2%80%93-benefits-and-instructions/

If you want to learn Reiki, there is a workshop this Friday:

Reiki Workshop for Beginners, Feb 2011

By Naran S. Balakumar

Reiki Level I and II, including symbols from Traditional Reiki as well as Karuna Reiki

Date:                           25^th February 2011, 9.30 AM to 3.30 PM

Venue:                         New No.28, Sivaji Street, T. Nagar, Chennai – 17

Contact:                       Shobana – 9884301634

Participation Fee:        Rs. 1,500/-

Don’t be Sympathetic! Be Empathetic!

What happens, if we get contaminated, when we heal others?

Even if you do flower remedies these types of problem may afflict you. For that matter, we are affected even if you practise Homeopathy. However what do we do in Homeopathy or Flower Remedies? We shouldn’t get any problem as we are not healing as the flowers and the homeopathic pills do the healing.

Even then if it happens then it means we are sympathising with our patients. The Bach Flower Remedy Walnut breaks this unwanted link between you and the patient.

In general, we are getting involved with the patient and are anxious to correct their problem(s). Remember, we are only giving remedies. We shouldn’t worry whether it is working or not. For the same reason, we shouldn’t expect why they haven’t informed us on what’s happening to them.

Irrespective of knowing all these, sometimes we do get involved. If you think you may be influenced by their state of mind, then take the Bach Flower Remedies Centaury and Walnut.

We don’t have to put a white light shield, as some energy practices suggest. We are always shielded. What happens is that when we hear somebody’s cries, we get involved. In this type of situation, Bach Flower Remedy Red Chestnut also would help.

The universal energy clears and cleanses all unwanted and unseen energies, from the source of the healing place. It’s the Hon Sha Ze Sho Nen symbol!