Don’t let others use your goodwill

Question to Naran

I am managing my family of four, including my wife and widowed father. Due to my economic constraint, I had taken some loans. Both my wife and my father knew my financial situation very well.

Meanwhile, last week, my father sold some ancestral property that belongs to my grand-parents. Even though as per law, I had to get that share, my father wanted to keep the money for himself, without having any regards for my financial situation – which includes taking care of him. I don’t know how to explain to him.

Ashok

Answer by Naran

I think your father is misusing your goodwill. As a (Bach Flower) Centaury person, you don’t know how to handle this situation. Do the following technique, which is part of the Chakra Balancing exercise followed by Reiki practitioners:

1. Keep your left hand on your Solar Plexus chakra and right hand on the Heart Chakra

2. Chant the mantra, “Rum Yum”

Next day Ashok called Naran and said, “My father approached me and told me that he would like give me enough money to pay back all my loans. If I say I am flabbergasted, it would be an understatement”.

Explanation

A Centaury person is a weak-willed person. He will be used by others and treated like a door-mat, others having no concern for him. The Solar Plexus would be weak for a weak-willed person.

The right hand is the giving hand, while the left hand is the receiving hand.  Thus, energy from the heart fills up the solar plexus.

When there is a person ready for manipulation, then there will be a person to manipulate. As the Solar Plexus is strengthened, automatically the opposite person can’t manipulate.

To know how to do Chakra Balancing then please check out this blog:  https://healbyreiki.wordpress.com/2009/05/15/chakra-balancing-%e2%80%93-benefits-and-instructions/

If you want to learn Reiki, there is a workshop this Friday:

Reiki Workshop for Beginners, Feb 2011

By Naran S. Balakumar

Reiki Level I and II, including symbols from Traditional Reiki as well as Karuna Reiki

Date:                           25^th February 2011, 9.30 AM to 3.30 PM

Venue:                         New No.28, Sivaji Street, T. Nagar, Chennai – 17

Contact:                       Shobana – 9884301634

Participation Fee:        Rs. 1,500/-